Travis Connick

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I love this video of Francis Ford Coppola.  It’s about 10 minutes long, but it’s worth watching.  Notice how much detail and thought he gave to the book “The God Father.” What would the ramifications be if pastors, who actually have redeemed thinking gave the same amount of thought and detail to their work as Coppola does to his?

This upcoming weekend, I have been asked to represent the “faith community” at the Rogue Valley Medical Center as they are hosting a Suicide Loss Conference.  I’m honored to do so, and so I’ve written a paper on suicide, and thought I would share it on the blog.

I remember the moment exactly; it was a peaceful Saturday morning.  My wife, Trea walked into our bathroom and said, “The paramedics called and they need you.”  A young man who I knew ended his life, and his young girlfriend was in the room, witnessed it, and wouldn’t speak to anyone but me.  The girlfriend kept telling the paramedics, “I just want to talk to Travis, please get Travis.”

Instantly, a family was in crisis, a small town was devastated and we were thrown into confusion.  Why did this happen?  Were there warning signs?  Was he depressed?  Questions flooded my mind as I drove to meet with this young girl.  As we sat down to talk, she went over every scene with me, in graphic detail describing this young man’s last moments. She described how he had been drinking, they had gotten into an argument, and he shot himself in the side of the head, while she watched.

Over the next few days I met with the family, met with around 40 high school students, and some staff, and to my surprise the thing they wanted to know more than anything else was, “What do the Scriptures say about it?  What happens to someone who commits suicide?”  Let’s examine each question.

 What do the Scriptures say about suicide?

Suicide is not an easy issue to discuss. It needs to be addressed, however, especially when considering on average, one person in the United States kills himself or herself every sixteen minutes, over 30,000 per year.[1]

We know that suicide is a serious sin because it goes against the sixth commandment, “You shall not murder” (Exodus 20:13), and suicide is murder against oneself.  The commandment not to murder is built upon the fact that as humans we are created in God’s image (Genesis 1:26), and we are to reflect God’s character, and the God of the Scriptures is a life-giving God.  Therefore, suicide is a serious sin.  Like all other sins, suicide makes us legally guilty before God, and yet some sins are worse than others because of the degrees of devastation that they bring into our lives and into the lives of others. Also some sins cause God more displeasure than others.  This would be especially true of suicide because it is a repudiation and rejection of God’s gift of life.

Suicide has always been radical disobedience to our Creator-God.  Satan would love nothing more than to have God commit suicide (Matthew 4:5), yet he couldn’t get him to do it so he does the next best thing and that is to get God’s image bearers, humans beings to commit suicide….and so for that reason is it a particularly serious sin.

Dr. Wayne Grudem, Research Professor of Bible and Theology at Phoenix Seminary states, “The distinction between degrees of seriousness of sin does not imply an endorsement of the Roman Catholic teaching that sins can be put into two categories of “venial” and “mortal.” In Roman Catholic teaching, a venial sin can be forgiven, but often after punishments in this life or in Purgatory (after death, but before entrance into heaven). A mortal sin (they say suicide is a mortal sin) is a sin that causes spiritual death and cannot be forgiven; it excludes people from the Kingdom of God.”[2]

Within the pages of the Old Testament we find several occurrences of suicide recorded as historical fact.

• Abimelech (Judges 9:54)
• Samson (Judges 16:28-31)
• Saul (1 Samuel 31:1-6)
• Ahithophel ( 2 Samuel 17:23)
• Zimri ( 1 Kings 16:18)
• Saul’s armor-bearer ( 1 Chronicles 10:5)

What is interesting is that in the Scriptures those who committed suicide weren’t judged simply upon their decision to end their life, but rather on whether they put their faith in God as He has revealed Himself in the Scriptures.

Unfortunately, many Church fathers, in an effort to protect human life, went too far and publicly condemned those who had committed suicide.   In the year A.D. 452, the Council of Arles condemned suicide.  The Council of Orleans in A.D. 533 asserted that offerings were not allowed for those who committed suicide.[3] Thirty years later, in 563, the Synod of Braga banned the singing of psalms at the funeral of a suicide and said that the body of a suicide could not be brought into the church building as part of the burial ceremony.[4]  In 693 the Synod of Toledo barred individuals who had attempted suicide from receiving the Lord’s Supper for two months, during which time they were expected to repent of their sin.[5]

Thankfully, we in the evangelical, protestant tradition have placed more of an emphasis on letting Scripture speak for itself, and have taken a more redemptive approach to suicide. Again, suicide is radical disobedience against God, however, our salvation has never been based upon our ability to obey, “For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— not by works, so that no one can boast” (Ephesians 2:8-9).

What happens to someone who commits suicide?

When I spoke with the high school students after this young man’s death, this was their main question.  In the New Testament, we read the account of Judas Iscariot (Matthew 27:3-5 & Acts 1:18, 24-25), and this one account has thrown many into confusion.  Judas, the one who betrayed Jesus, after he realized he betrayed an innocent man, went off and hanged himself.  Later, in the Book of Acts, the physician Luke writes, “Judas left to go where he belongs” and the phrase, “where he belongs” is a euphemism for Hell.  Many have taken this passage and deduced that Judas was in Hell because he committed suicide.  Judas committed suicide, and he went to Hell, but not because he committed suicide.  Judas went to Hell, because when he died he did not believe in Jesus Christ (John 6:64 & 70).  Judas trusted in himself all along and when he realized he had sinned by betraying Jesus, he punished himself for his sin by killing himself.  He never let the Lord be the Lord at any point in their relationship.

If a person has placed their trust in the person and the work of Jesus Christ when they pass from this age into the next, no matter how they pass, they will be ushered into the presence of the Lord Jesus, because “He saved us, not because of righteous things we had done, but because of his mercy. He saved us through the washing of rebirth and renewal by the Holy Spirit, whom he poured out on us generously through Jesus Christ our Savior, so that, having been justified by his grace, we might become heirs having the hope of eternal life” (Titus 3:5-7).

“I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.”

PHILIPPIANS 1:20-21            

 My wife is extremely blessed, you see both sets of her grandparents love the Lord Jesus with everything in them, and have done a great job modeling Christ to her since she was a young child.   Recently though, we had to come to grips with the fact that we were in the final stages of her grandmother Polly’s life.  The cancer that has been waging war with her body for over 3 years, eventually won, and Polly went Home to be with our Lord.             

Two Christmas’ ago, while Polly was still with us, she got released from the hospital and was able to come home and spend time with her husband and her family.  One morning, the family decided to go for a visit and spend some time with Polly.  As we gathered around her bed and asked how she was feeling, and what the doctors were telling her, all Polly wanted to do was talk about the Lord, and what He was doing in her life and in the lives of those who she came into contact with.   We started to sing worship songs, first softly, and with each song our voices grew stronger.  We watched Polly lift her hands and praise the Lord.  It was an amazing moment for me.  To be able to witness a woman who is dying, her body failing, her arms so weak, praising Christ with every ounce of strength she had in her. It caused me to ask myself, “Lord, would I be praising you, if my body was breaking down and I knew my time with my family was almost up?”            

Polly’s attitude, echoed the Apostle Paul’s words in Philippians 1:20-21, “I will not be put to shame in anything, but that with all boldness, Christ will even now, as always, be exalted in my body, whether by life or by death. For to me, to live is Christ and to die is gain.”             

Paul (and Polly) understood something about a life of purpose.  Much has been said and written lately about purpose.  Read over Paul’s words in Philippians.  He clearly had a purpose!  He clearly was carrying out a mandate.  Whatever it takes to help in the process of bringing glory to God’s name, Paul would do it.   What about you?  Can you say with a clear conscience that your purpose for living is to bring God’s Name glory, so that no matter by life or death, His name will be proclaimed?